Dear N,
I hope this finds you well.
I miss our friendship. I miss knowing what your kids are up to. I don’t understand why our kids not being friends anymore means that we can’t be friends anymore. You were my main Mom-friend and I have been grieving that loss. I feel like our friendship must not have been as important to you as it was to me, if you’re able to just stop communicating with me. The kids are teenagers now so it would be easy for us to continue to be friends without them. There wasn’t any big falling out (to my knowledge) between them. I still care about your kids – they’ve been in my life since they were babies and I have loved them like they were my own. I still scour pictures from mutual friends online to see if your middle has still continued to dance. I see your oldest is now playing the same sport you played in high school. I would love to know if they’re ok, and if you’re ok. Are things ok with your parents? I have so much I’d like to tell you.
I miss you greatly, and I wish you missed me too.
Love,
T